I’m one of those super annoying perpetually positive people and if you’re not, I think that’s something you should work on. There’s not one good reason you can give me why you shouldn’t at least attempt to put a positive spin on everything in your life. When something negative pops into my mind I like to challenge it by following it up with “well at least…”. It’s incredibly helpful in refocusing your mind and energy toward the positive, because you attract the energy you put out into the universe. My husband and I might be nearly three kids deep in my in laws’ basement right now, but at least we’re not stuck in a house in ghetto that was too small and too expensive with a hole in the living room that went right to the basement. At least we’re living somewhere safe where we can continue to save to finally get into a decent place for our family. It’s easy shit like that, stuff you might generally get down on yourself for, flip it! What might be the good in your situation. I can’t STAND a person that insists on staying at a low vibration and who feels the need to try and bring everyone else down to their level. What’s your fucking problem, bro? Your life is beautiful, but you refuse to acknowledge the beauty in any way and insist on wasting your life being angry at the circumstances you created for yourself. I was in a treatment group with a guy like this and every time I walked in the room it was like i immediately walked into a rain cloud. This guy would say shit like “oh I just moved into my own apartment, but it’s a shithole and I don’t even have a shower curtain” or “I don’t even belong in this class, it was my old roommate that got caught with drugs not me” or “my bike got stolen and now I have to walk everywhere” BRO YOURE BLESSED AND YOU DONT EVEN SEE IT! Congrats on your new place, I’m sorry you don’t have a shower curtain, but it could be worse I swear! I’ve been living at the Bishop Dudley for the last 6 months and it’s not so bad at least I get a bed and shower but I’d kill for your place! Even if the drugs weren’t yours maybe that’s a sign that you shouldn’t hang out with people that would put you in that kind of a situation, at least now you can meet more positive friends in group with us. Yo, I’m sorry your bike got stolen, I don’t have a bike either, but I’ll walk to class with you! Like come on my dude, if you can at all see yourself in the person I’m describing KNOCK IT OFF! You’re life doesn’t suck, your attitude sucks. Once you change your thinking pattern I promise you’re gonna see more positive changes in your life! I spent a long time being negative and angry. You know where that got me? Into a deeper darker abyss of negativity. It wasn’t until I started trying to find the light the light in my situation and realized that I was in control of literally everything that my life started changing for the better. If you think your life sucks right now, stop it. The first step to improving your life is improving your attitude towards it, once your mindset is on point and you’re open to where the universe is trying to guide you you’ll finally see that everything that seemed impossible is totally possible and we’ll worth the work to start living the life you deserve. Life is too short to spend it being a negative Nelly, release the butterflies and rainbows that want to escape your ass, you’ll thank me later!
