Release the love you wish to receive

As long as I’ve known my husband he has NEVER been a morning person. He’s actually the exact opposite and waking him up for work (or anything really) has always been my least favorite thing on the planet. We’ve been together for nearly 5 years and up until very very recently I used to let his negativity in the morning ruin my whole day. A lot of the times I’d already be in a bad mood before I even attempted to wake him up because I knew it was going to be unpleasant. So, what I’m saying is; I would ruin my entire day before it even started because I anticipated a negative interaction before it even happened. I would go into my interaction with him already negative because I expected negativity back, and you know what I got? Exactly what I was giving, negativity. This is EXACTLY how the universe works, you are going to get back exactly what you put out there. I KNOW he’s not a morning person, I KNOW there’s a possibility he’s going to be unpleasant, but why in the actual fuck am I going to let that bring my vibration down? Who does that help? It doesn’t put him in a better mood to be woken up by an angry swap troll and it does me no good to be a wretched hag the entire day. Now both our days started off on the wrong level and the universe is going to repay us with exactly what we’re asking for, more negativity! Now I start our mornings off on a much different note. He’s still not a morning person, I can’t change that, but I can change how I deal with it. He works 12 hours 3 days a week. His first alarm goes off at 330am. When I hear that first alarm I hop up and turn on the coffee pot, find his coffee cup and water bottle and set them both near the pot, I make the baby a preemptive bottle and I go lay back down. Now his second alarm goes off at 415, when I hear this one I hop up again and go start the car so he doesn’t have to scrape it when he goes to leave at 430. When I go back to the room I shake him tell him the time and then I sit up and a meditate until 430; if he isn’t already up by then I shake him again and he hops up and gets ready and I wait until I hear him leave before I lay back down until my alarm to start my day at 545. Anyone see the difference? He’s still not a morning person, but I’ve done very simple things to make his morning slightly easier. I know im going to be up any way to make sure he’s up and going but I waste none of my own energy feeling any type of way. My mindset is, he’s getting up at the ass crack of dawn all weekend to go work his ass off to support our family and the least I can do is make sure he’s got his coffee and a warm car. Sometimes he’s still snappy but because I don’t take it personally and snap back he apologizes almost every time for his behavior. Give the love you wish to receive. During the week he takes our son to school every morning. I make sure the coffee pot is ready the night before so we’ve just got to turn it on and I make sure our son has his clothes ready the night before. My intention is to be up and start coffee and work out before I have to wake our son up at 7 for school, but often times Wyatt is up before me and he’s waking me up with a glass of coffee and breakfast of some sort and if our daughter wakes up early, he’ll bring her with him so I have my time to work out and shower. Raise your own vibration, release the love you wish to receive and the universe and those around you will feel and reciprocate that. I am not lucky, luck has nothing to do with it, I’m blessed with the very best because we continue to work on it every day.