Be careful who you choose to surround yourself with because energies are contagious, both good and bad. Misery loves company and people permanently fixed at the bottom that just ooze greed, envy, and self pity vibrate at the lowest level. These people seek to suck those around them into this self destructive pit with them. These people see anyone trying to claw their way out as a threat to their own self worth and will attempt to pull you back in at all costs. They see no way out for themselves and they’ll be damned if they feel you’re going to leave them there alone in their own misery. These people don’t actually want help, they want to snuff out your light. Pray for them. Pray they find what ails them and they choose to heal it, but you cannot fix these type of people. These people see someone beginning to love their own body and then remind them how they used to look or bash what they choose wear or what they eat or their choice to work out. These people see someone finding their faith and make fun of them, judge how they choose to worship, or what they choose to identify their higher power as, choose to remind them of when they were godless heathens. They see someone reconnecting with their family and they choose to try and stir the pot, start rumors that aren’t true, pressure them into resuming their old ways, remind them of the shitty choices they had made before. They see someone happy in their relationship and they try to poke holes, plant doubt, weave insecurities. These people are heartless and gutless. When it comes to tearing others down they have no shame. These people claim to do what they feel is right, but in reality all they do is self serving. I truly feel bad for these people because how badly do you have to be suffering to only wish to inflict similar suffering on those around you. How bad do you have to be suffering to not believe in a way out. I pray for you. I hope beyond all things you one day find your worth and decide to be better than what you accept today. When you see someone trying to do better, cheer them on. If you’re in a better place than them, offer a hand up. If they’re somewhere you wish to be, ask for help. But never try to drag others backward to match where you are. Watch how you talk about those doing better than you because the universe hears all and will deliver you exactly what you ask for. You see someone in a nice car, internally congratulate them on their success, don’t bad mouth them for getting something you envy. The universe hears you badmouthing something you desire and what it hears is “fuck them and that thing, I don’t want one” instead of “good for them, I will have one some day too”. There’s a monumental difference in the energy that puts out and the energy that will be returned. Desire and envy are very low vibration levels to exist at unless used correctly. You can use envy and desire as your motivation to do better. I can be envious of someone and desire what they have without being bitter and cold about it. I can harness that envy and that desire into a tangible plan to attain those things I want but don’t yet have. Watch how certain people make you feel. Surround yourself with people who’s energy matches what you want yours to be. Watch how you think and how you talk because what you put out there will be returned to you. Look to be someone’s hand up and never seek to destroy anyone. Do all you do in the name of love.
Only in the name of love
I’m Working on It 
I can buy into what you say but could you pretty please tone the swearing down? If not, then I can’t and won’t read it anymore. You won’t though because your type won’t. It’s a generational flaw.
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Lol I won’t change how I speak on my blog because you or anyone is too sensitive for my words. Listen to what I’m saying or get hung up on the words I’m using, the choice is yours.
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That’s fair…i won’t read you anymore.
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To each their own, I’m not everyone’s cup of tea.
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Sure..but people like me and others would enjoy your strength and inspiration if you’d clean up that potty mouth.
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After rereading my post I don’t even think I cussed in it so I’m not sure what you’re complaining about?
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No because it’s too natural. F$$$ them is common speech. Got it.
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In my life it is. I swear much less in my posts than I do in person. I’m not sure why we are so sensitive to words? It’s simply a word, an expletive, an emotional enhancement to my statement. I write my posts with my train of thought. This is my blog. I don’t write it for anyone specifically, I don’t write it with the intention of getting people to read it. I write it because it helps me. I write it because it appears to help other people. My choice in words is simply that MY choice in words. If you don’t like the words I choose or the order I put them in that is your prerogative. But I enjoy my words. I chose them for a reason. I am not tailoring my posts to appease those that read them. If you don’t like them simply don’t read them. What a beautiful country we live in where I have the freedom to say what I want how I want to and where you have the freedom to dislike what I’m saying and simply quit reading.
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So you don’t care who you inspire…you just want a forum to swear…got it
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Hmm this doesn’t seem to be going anywhere. Have a lovely day
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You too. I love your messages. But stop swearing. Thanks.
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Hey Taylor Mae, I’m sorry for the spammer(s) today. They kinda made your point for you, though. 😏
Before reading the comments, I was going to say… seems like you had someone(s) in mind with this specific post, and I’m sorry to read that anyone would be so offended or threatened by your recovery and progress that they would go to such lengths to try and derail you. Please do practice self-care and know you’re worth it! 😊
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Thank you very much! As I said in my comments to them, listen to what I’m saying or get hung up on the words I choose to use. That’s on you but I’m going keep on pushing ☺️
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Everything is on point here, I went back and re-read, you said fuck once, which is fucking impressive, if you ask me. I can barely get through a fucking sentence without using the ever ubiquitous fuck.
Funny, since those who tend to be “vulgar” tend to also have higher IQs, which is why your post makes far more sense than some of these fucking comments. Since when are folks to entitled to change others to suit their wants? What the fuck?
To your actual post tho, this really was a hilarious synchronicity to prove your point fucking magnificently. 💙💙💙 keep raising that shit up chica, you are 🔥
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Omg 😂 I love this and you! Thank you 🥰
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